There are a lot of things men like about women, like the way you smile, the way you tie those hairs back and many more. However, there are a lot of things that turn us off too. I hope you take a look at yourself and replenish your positive vibes by stopping these kinds of behavior.
1. Excessive makeup
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Yes we understand that women needs makeup but is it really necessary to put on that very thick makeup that we can literally feel how heavy your face feels? I mean, you are more beautiful if you just highlighted your beauty. It’s a lot more horrible if you hide your face. It’s like you don't even love your own face that you put on a mask everyday. Come on ladies, it's really stupid.
2. The wrong concept of gender equality.
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This is for those women who fight for gender equality. I respect your opinion on matters of gender equality but please, once you exercise your rights, don't be mad we don't give way to you on queues or give you discounts on things because you're a woman. We should be equals. That means, however people treat men, should be the same treatment to you ladies. Also, whenever men opens a door for you, don't assume that we are against gender equality. That is called chivalry. And chivalry is not dead.
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Some people don't remember that what we call diet today should be called "proper diet". Just because some famous celebrity is on the cover of a magazine, doesn't mean that your body should look exactly like her. Diet is balanced meal, exercise and healthy living and not depriving yourself from food. Go on and indulge yourself with those tasty chocolates but remember not to eat too much. With just the right amount and the proper equivalent exercise, you'll do fine. Men don't like skinny women; we don’t like fat women either. Not unless it's an illness and there's nothing you can do. But as long as there's is a way, you should try it. No excuses.
4. Minding other people's business
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There are times when all you see are other people's businesses. Women notice everything. I'm sure you'll notice the couple wearing the same shirts then thinking "why the hell did they wear that in public?". You will notice the green sandals of the woman behind us and thinking that she doesn't look good on it. You'll notice the body of a model on a poster and compare yourself to her. Why should you care about their business? Mind your own business, they have their own and they won't even care about what you think. Just enjoy the place and the time and not destroy yourself thinking malicious thoughts about others.
5. Wearing uncomfortable clothes/shoes.
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I know about the idea of "dress to impress". But if you are not comfortable wearing a five inch heels everyday that your face crumples like a grumpy old woman because of the pain you feel on your soles, then why freaking wear it? You could have put on shoes that are more comfortable and would bring a pleasant face to your face. Your aura alone is a good way to impress.
6. Applying nail polish the wrong way.
Look, your body is a canvas and you paint on it every day. Why not do it the right way? I saw some ladies sometime ago that have a nice work of art on her nails. However, it looked disgusting. Why? It was not painted the right way, there were lots of smudges, and there were lumps. Ladies, If you cant paint you nails right, there are nail spas everywhere. They specialize on this. But if you can't afford it, try to practice it then. The image below might help. If not, just clean your nails and leave it as is. Trust me, it's better that way.
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7. Treating every man as douchebags.
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8. Complicating everything.
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Everything is simple. If you have a problem, tackle the problem. Don't make other problems out of that problem and don't runaway either. If you have a fight with your boyfriend, talk about it. Don't take all past issues and dump them the same time you are fighting about a very simple thing. It will make it worse, I promise. Find the cause of the issue and solve it. Don't just stand there and find someone to blame. Just don't.
9. Making issues out of everything.
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Just because your boyfriend have a lady workmate, don't assume that they are doing nasty things. They might be JUST workmates. Don't be that over-attached to him. It will kill your relationship. You have a boyfriend, not a prisoner. Not a slave and certainly not a younger brother. Trust him like he trusts you and things will work out fine.
Here are some other (runners-up) things women should stop doing. I won't go into details here anymore. These should be self explanatory.
10. Hating your body.
11. Skipping the gym then whining about not going
12. Getting upset over everything (even though you're in your red days).
13. Buying clothes and not wearing them.
14. Fishing for attention on Facebook. (This is just aweful)